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Can I Name a Baby Charlotte in Charlotte?

August 19th, 2010 admin No comments

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I’m a first-time mom pregnant with a daughter. Our absolute favorite name is Charlotte. It’s just so beautiful! Here’s the catch. We live in North Carolina. Charlotte is the largest and most well-known city in our state. Is it out for us?

- NC Mom

There’s no simple rule for how a place name plays to people from that place. Some city names sound silly on babies to the locals, whereas others sound extra-appealing. And still others just sound like, well, names.

On one end of the spectrum, take Brooklyn. Brooklyn is the 37th most popular girl’s name in the U.S. The closer you get to Brooklyn, N.Y., though, the less popular it gets. In New York State and New Jersey, the name has never cracked the top 100. Brooklyn-the-borough has such a powerful image there that namers stay away from it. But far from the Big Apple, where Brooklyn has less daily reality, the pretty sound and vaguely big-city edge make the name extremely popular — it’s top 10 in Utah and South Dakota.

At the other extreme, Savannah is more popular in Georgia than in the U.S. overall. Virginia the name was for several years most popular in the state of Virginia, and Caroline remains especially hot in the Carolinas. (Want to explore this on your own? Try the BabyNameWizard.com NameMapper tool.)

Part of the calculation is whether the image of the place fits the name’s style. Brooklyn, N.Y., is many fine things, but sweet and girlish don’t top the list. Savannah, in contrast, is just right for Savannah, Georgia’s southern charm. In fact, the portrait of the city of Savannah in the book “Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil” helped make the baby name popular.

Another factor is the name’s associations beyond the place. This is where Charlotte really shines. It’s a classic girl’s name, linked to centuries of culture from Charlotte Brontë to “Charlotte’s Web” to the “Charlotte of Sex and the City.” Even a city as strong as Charlotte, N.C., can’t dominate the name. As a result, Charlotte remains quite popular in your state. So go ahead and give your child the beautiful gift of your “absolute favorite name.” Your fellow North Carolinians should welcome her with open arms.

Have you run into names shared with a map, or a dictionary? Share your experiences here. And if you have your own question to Ask the Name Lady, drop her a line!

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Your Baby’s Name Is Not a Battleground

June 24th, 2010 admin No comments

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Last time, I wrote about the desperate need for baby name manners among strangers. Today, I’d like to bring that closer to home. The most heated — and saddest — baby name conflicts I hear about happen within families.

Name choices are personal and powerful. They can strengthen bonds, but they can also drive wedges. When broader family conflicts are at work, they can even be used as weapons. The deeper problems are far beyond the scope of a baby name column. But within my name realm, I make this plea to parents: Whatever your family issues may be, please, never put your baby’s name in the middle of them.

Every child deserves a name given in the spirit of love, one that will build bridges, not burn them. It’s not fair for an innocent child to grow up with her name standing as a symbol of resentment. It’s not responsible of you, as a parent, to knowingly give her a name that will hurt those around her. And if others do make the mistake of choosing a hurtful name, it’s up to all of us grownups to look past the name and accept the child behind it.

Here is a sampling of letters I’ve received, as a reminder of the effect that callous name choices — and overreactions to them — can have. Let’s all try to do better. (All names that follow were changed to protect the children’s privacy.)

“My sister had a child named Matthew. My friend started seeing my ex brother-in-law. She got pregnant and my ex brother-in-law did not marry her. She knew my sister had a Matthew with the same guy but she had the baby and named him Matthew. So now we have half brothers with the same name!”

“I had picked out my baby’s name first. She was born one month before my cousin’s. She named her baby the same name. I was angry and foolish. My cousin died shortly after, and her baby girl was left with no mom at the age of 4. I felt so guilty for being so petty.”

“My husband left me when my baby was 2 months old. Later I discovered that he’s living with his affair of many years and he named my daughter after her name. Could I legally change her name? It is an agony to call my baby her name.”

“We were in the long process of foster-adopting our 2-year-old daughter Victoria Rose (who had lived with us since she was three days old) when my husband’s brother and his wife gave birth to their daughter and decided to name her Victorya Rose. Since the fathers are brothers, our girls have the same last names, too. My mother-in-law said she didn’t intercede on our behalf because the newest granddaughter was ‘blood related’ and ‘we weren’t sure if you were keeping her.’”

If you have a baby name question of your own, Ask the Name Lady.

Related: I Gave My Baby the Wrong Name!

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How People Reacted to My Baby’s Name

June 4th, 2010 admin No comments

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Celebrities aren’t the only people who can give their kids unusual names. Credit: Getty Images

Actor Jason Lee named his child Pilot Inspektor. Sylvester Stallone named his child Sage Moonblood.

Then there’s magician Penn Jillette’s daughter, Moxie Crimefighter, and actress Shannyn Sossamon’s son, Audio Science. And who can beat legendary rocker Frank Zappa? He named his children Moon Unit, Dweezil and Diva Thin Muffin.

Celebrities have a reputation for doling out strange baby names, names that may make other people roll their eyes.

But what about the non-celebrity world? We asked contributors to Seed.com, AOL’s freelance website, to share people’s reactions to the unusual names they gave their children.

1. City and state, please.
Way before people began naming their children after states or objects like Dakota and Starr, I named my daughter Trier, after a city in Germany. Family “back in the states” thought it was culturally elite. Friends thought it was unusual, but pretty. Strangers asked, “Why?” (Sharon McClatchie Trainer)

2. Which witch is which? Trick-or-treating in Massachusetts on Halloween night, I went into labor. I named my newborn daughter Salem. Upon hearing her name my mother asked, “Is she a good witch or a bad witch?” (Analiese Curtis Place)

3. Picking a name on a hunch. I have a crazy idea on how Quasimodo is a beautiful name, and it’s considered ugly because of the character it’s linked to. When I chose this name ,shortly after getting pregnant, everyone rejected the name and seemed offended. Of course, I had to choose a different name. (Daisy Vasquez-Harris)

4. If it’s good enough for a sex symbol … Planning to return to Venezuela as missionaries, we chose Raquel for our daughter’s name. The doctor refused to sign the birth certificate — until he saw Raquel Welch on “The Tonight Show.” (Janet Blaine-Smith)

5. ‘Scarface’ was taken. I chose my daughter’s name, Jessie Jane, after the famous outlaw, and my mother threw a fit. I ended up using the first name, but changed the middle name. (B. Abbott)

6. The devil made her do it. Friends were appalled when my husband and I announced our son’s name, Damian. They were even more outraged to learn that we had named him from the movie “The Omen.” (Sherrie Lee)

7. The car or the planet? We named our son Mercury to represent his astrological sign. People often question whether he’s named after Freddie Mercury, the element, the car, a thermometer or the planet. (Kylie Wiser)

8. There’s always “Apollo Creed.” My husband is a body builder. He wanted to name our first boy Rocky. I said, even if he came out fighting, that was an absurd name for an infant. Everyone agreed. (Cathleen Schafer)

9. Every Tom, Dick and Harry is named Zaara. I was six months pregnant when my daughter’s name came to me. Zaheer and I were walking around Manhattan, and all of a sudden, I said, “Zaara!” In the end, I got mostly positive responses to her name. Except for one aunt. “I wanted to name my granddaughter that name!” she exclaimed.
(Amara Mahmood)

10. Not everything’s about Brad Pitt.
My husband and I wanted to choose traditional baby names. We chose “Tristan” for our son after the legendary knight at the round table. Everyone asked if we were naming our son after Brad Pitt from “Legends of the Fall.” Brad Pitt is not traditional, in my mind. (Nicole L. Thibault)

11. Don’t stop believin’. My daughter’s name is Journey. I planned her name before I’d planned much else. It just felt right. Still, I got (and get) a lot of reactions. Her father’s family: “What kind of a hippie name is that?” My mother: “You realize it’s just short for Granny’s Little Trip.” Strangers most often ask me if I named her after the band. She’s 13 and is just beginning to forget how cool I am, but I remind her that even I am too cool to have named her after a band. (Julie Jordan Avritt)

12. Just call her Ema. The first reaction of my 6-year-old daughter’s name, Emalynn, were that of total confusion and a million different mispronunciations. To this day, we just tell people to call here “Ema” to avoid the weird versions they come up with. (Paisley W.)

13. Keep hope alive. When we were pregnant with our daughter, my mother told us that we should name her Hope. We told her that we already had a name picked out. We would be naming her Hayden. At our baby shower there were several gifts addressed to Hope. I reminded her that we decided to name the baby Hayden. She replied,”I know. I like Hope better.”(Faith Merriam)

14. Football name may have to be sacked. If one more person asked me if I named my daughter Brady after the New England Patriots’ quarterback, Tom Brady, I think I might have had to consider renaming her. Short of dressing her only in Giants blue, smiling meekly and explaining that no, her name is a family name, I think I might have had to move out of New England. (Aileen DePeter)

15. Buy a vowel. My wife agreed to Nikolai as my youngest son’s middle name, with the caveat that she be allowed to alter the spelling to Nikoli. When our Russian nurse saw the spelling, she gave my wife a stern lecture on vowel sounds. “Nikolai. Ni-kol-ah-ee. Ni-kol-aaaah-eeee. Not Nicole-e.” (Hans Ford)

16. Vasco de Gama’s grandmother said the same thing. The first time my grandmother held my son, she started fussing over his name. “I like it,” she said, “but Malachi is too big of a name for such a little boy. I’ll just call him Ralph!” To this day I still don’t know how she came up with Ralph. (Rachel Mae)

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The Everything Baby Names Book, Completely Updated With 5,000 More Names!: Pick the Perfect Name for Your Baby

May 27th, 2010 admin 5 comments

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If you’re looking for the baby name book that has it all–classic and contemporary suggestions without the insanely silly options you wouldn’t even use to name your pet-this second edition of The Everything Baby Names Book is your singular resource for naming your little bundle of joy! Loaded with the 25,000 best options for boys and girls, you can easily narrow down your favorites from A to Z.
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The One-in-a-Million Baby Name Book: The BabyNames.com Guide to Choosing the Best Name for Your New Arrival

April 27th, 2010 admin 6 comments

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From one of the top parenting websites—a comprehensive naming guide featuring the unique Babynames.com popularity ratings.

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